Frequently Asked Questions

1.) What is the difference between a certified sex therapist and a “regular therapist?”

As an official certified sex therapist, an additional 90 hours of training and education in human sexuality is required through a program that is approved through AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapist).

Sex therapists are required to demonstrate a deep understanding of human sexuality, sexual disorders, anatomy, and sexual health. 

“Regular Therapists” typically only have the opportunity take one course in human sexuality in their graduate program as that is all that most university programs require. Many therapists choose to further their education and training in specialty fields. 

Compare this to an Obstetrician. They are initially trained as a medical doctor but then continue into the specialized area of obstetrics.

2.) What does it mean to be a sex positive therapist?

To become a sex-positive therapist, one must undergo specialized training and embrace a non-judgmental, inclusive approach to sexuality. This involves understanding diverse sexual orientations, identities, relationship dynamics, and practices as well as create a safe space where clients can freely explore their sexual experiences.

3.) Who sees a sex therapist?

Anybody can see a sex therapist for any sexual difficulties/issues they might be experiencing. There are no small or big sexual problems or dysfunctions.

4.) Is sex therapy awkward?

For a lot of people, it can feel a bit uncomfortable at first. Talking about sex isn't something most of us grew up doing, so it's completely normal to feel nervous walking into your first session.

That said, you don't have to share anything before you're ready. We move at your pace, and I never pressure any of my clients to talk about details that don't feel comfortable.

5.) Will my therapist judge my kink?

Absolutely not! My office is a judgment-free space.

Whether you're curious about kink, actively involved in the BDSM community, or trying to understand what you enjoy, I see my role as helping you better understand yourself, your relationships, and what's getting in the way of living authentically.

You don't have to worry about shocking me or feeling embarrassed. I've had these conversations many times, and extensive training in this area.

7.) Can therapy help after infidelity?

Yes. While infidelity can be one of the most painful experiences a relationship goes through, it doesn't automatically mean the relationship is over. Many couples are able to rebuild trust and create a stronger relationship, while others realize the healthiest path is moving forward separately. Therapy can help you determine what's right for you.

There isn't a quick fix. It takes time to rebuild trust, honesty, accountability, and a willingness to understand what happened without excusing the hurt it caused.

8.) Are online session effective?

Yes. Research has shown that online therapy can be just as effective as in-person therapy for many concerns, including relationship and sex therapy.

Many of my clients appreciate the convenience of meeting from the comfort of their own home or office. It also allows me to work with individuals and couples across Texas, making specialized care more accessible no matter where you live.

9.) Why do you not take insurance?

First and foremost, it’s important to understand that insurance companies have their own rules and regulations when it comes to mental health coverage. They may limit the number of sessions you can have, require specific diagnoses to be made, or dictate the type of therapy that can be used. This can be challenging for therapists who want to provide the best possible care for their clients without being restricted by these requirements. Insurance companies are less interested in what treatment modalities, meeting frequencies, or extra collaboration is helpful to the client and more interested in what is most helpful for their company wallet. Sometimes, what the insurance company wants to pay for just isn’t what’s in the best interest of you as the client. 

Another important factor to consider is the issue of confidentiality. When you use insurance to pay for therapy, your insurance company has access to your diagnosis and treatment plan. This means that your personal information could potentially be shared with others, such as your employer or other healthcare providers. This can put many clients in an uncomfortable position.